What is Holiness? This is a question, that if you Google, has been asked and answered a thousand times over. So why am I writing about it? So that I too can understand the real meaning of Holiness, and talk about it with you.

So is Holiness something you can achieve? Is there some habit or clothing I can wear to be holy? Can I perform a ritual to be holy? Is ‘holiness’ something you can see on the outside, or is it just something that takes place on the inside? Or both?


The dictionary defines holiness as the state of being holy, and interestingly also refers to the John Wesleyan doctrine of sanctification, known as the Second Works of Grace, which is the bedrock of where the United Pentecostal Church adapted the standards they call Holiness.
Holiness is also the title given to The Pope, and to the Dalai Lama, yet we know only God can truly be Holy. He wants us to strive for perfection, for purity, but He also knows in this life we cannot, as humans, attain purity, or holiness. (1 John 2:1)
The standard definition goes on to define what holiness is, as it relates to the state of being holy: ‘a life of holiness and total devotion to God’
If we spend time reviewing Scripture, we see the most common word used across translations for holiness and holy, the Hebrew ko’-desh.
From H6942; a sacred place or thing; rarely abstractly sanctity: – consecrated (thing), dedicated (thing), hallowed (thing), holiness, (X most) holy (X day, portion, thing), saint, sanctuary.
This is from the primitive root kaw-dash’ which means to be clean.
We also find the word hag’-ee-on in the Old Testament, such as in Exodus 3:5 when Moses encounters the burning bush on Mt. Horeb and God calls the place Moses is standing on a holy place. It’s meaning is slightly different but carries a similar connotation.
Neuter of G40; a sacred thing (that is, spot): – holiest (of all), holy place, sanctuary.
The referenced G40 word is hag’-ee-os which means;
From ἅγος hagos (an awful thing) compare G53, [H2282]; sacred (physically pure, morally blameless or religious, ceremonially consecrated): – (most) holy (one, thing), the saint.

So what IS Holiness?

One thing is abundantly clear in the Holy Scripture, God is Holy, and our purpose is to be like Him. As Paul said in 1 Corinthians 11:1, “Imitate me, just as I imitate Christ.
The first step to Holiness is to have the Holy Spirit dwelling within you. How can we, as the corrupt man, be holy (like Him) without His Holy Spirit within us?
For John baptized with water, but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit a few days from now. – Acts 1:5
who has placed his seal on us and has given us the Spirit in our hearts as a down payment. – 2 Corinthians 1:22
To be holy is to be sanctified, which is a lesson all unto itself, but the big question is whether or not sanctification is something WE do, or HE does. For instance, Jesus said sanctification would be something God did, through his Word.
They do not belong to the world, just as I do not belong to the world. Sanctify them by the truth. Your word is truth. – John 17:16-17 KJV
To be holy is to be set apart from the unholy. To have a distinguishing characteristic that is different from the unclean, or profane. I read a good article from Billy Graham on this topic but even that left me asking, “Well ok, great, we are to be holy. But…what does that look like?

Pentecostal girls showing off their ‘Holiness’

Here is my mental break down and why I must study this. In the United Pentecostal Church, International, and other break-away Oneness (Modalism) Pentecostal churches, Holiness is not the attributes of God, and his character of forgiveness, love, abiding faith, bearing other peoples burdens, but rather, it is defined as certain dress and appearance standards.
Holiness is superficial trappings taught as the outward demonstration of inward Holiness. In other words, holiness has a look. You can tell instantly, by looking at someone, if they are holy, or not. And, sadly, it creates a pride all of its own.
For instance, as you see in this picture above, women are taught that cutting one’s hair (even a millimeter) is sinful, and against God, it is, unholy. Thus, you create a great pride in how long their hair gets. Also, women cannot wear pants or anything that splits the leg other than nylons/pantyhose. No makeup, no jewelry, etc. There are boutiques out there just to create holiness clothes.
There are websites out there like www.apostolicclothing.com and www.daintyjewels.com where Apostolic Holiness people can shop for clothing and not have to look like the world.
But is dressing like culture demanded we do back in the 40’s really Holiness? Why not go back to the 1800’s then… or the 1700’s…
These ladies, while beautiful in their own way, don’t look anything like culture would have demanded when Scripture was written. So is that True Holiness?
I have asked groups containing thousands of Christian people from around the world the simple question, ‘What is Holiness?‘ and the answers are perplexing to me, having been taught like you see above, that Holiness is something you can see and observe superficially.
Women in pants, after all, could never be holy. A “Christian” wearing a cross necklace or eyeshadow in my former church would have instantly been deemed a ‘Sincere, but sincerely wrong [lost]’ Christian…
Here are some of the answers to the question, What is Holiness?
“In our Hearts”
Inward, not outward…Attained only through close proximity to and intimacy with the Holy One
“Otherness” Not like any other… special, unique. The opposite of it is “commonness”
“separate. set apart”
“Being conformed to the image of Christ” ❤

I’m still not sure what Holiness Is…

Reading Scripture, we can see that Holy is something that is extr26804943_10213214690634931_3006522476883198421_na special. A holy place is something that is revered and carefully tended to. The Holy God is something spectacular that we could never fully imitate or become.
A holy person was someone who gave themselves, wholly (no pun intended) to God. A dedicated heart endeavoring to be like Christ, to strive towards the mark of Godliness, someone who worked towards fulfilling the Law of Christ. (Galatians 6:2)
I put the on the above quote because that is what we can see, in Scripture, as the most definitive and yet perplexing reflection of what being Holy, or Holiness really means!
Holiness isn’t something you can’t quantify, not with super long hair or super long dresses, or judge instantly based on superficial outward appearances of your fellow man!
If being ‘conformed to the image of Christ’ was truly a dress standard or appearance based, we should all wear sandals and robes, have holes in our hands, scars on our head and with a wound in our side. Holiness isn’t a mirror, an iPhone, a lot of hairspray, and a special pride in showing our Apostolic Beauty. In fact, I thought Apostolic Holiness was about not calling attention to yourself…
So it must be something else! To be in the image of Christ must mean to behave in the manner in which Christ did. For comparison, the man was created in the Image of God (Genesis 1:26), but we know God has no temporal form, he is not a man of flesh and blood, bones, and hair. God is a Spirit (John 4:24).
Holiness cannot then, be confined to the simple understanding that, if you dress just right, you are holy. I was told, about Apostolic Holiness standards, paraphrased;
If you truly had God’s spirit (the Holy Ghost) then these dress standards (UPC dress codes) would make sense to you. Didn’t Jesus tell Nicodemus that unless you had the spirit you couldn’t even understand the Kingdom of God?
Well… that would mean not even the Apostles and early Christians were holy or, as Holiness really means, intimate with the Nature of Christ and striving to be like him. I really doubt Mary, Christ’ own mother, had hair like @ApostolicBeauty98. And I’m willing to stake a lot on the realization that to them, holiness was more about turning from sin, our fallen nature, and doing everthing possible to treat people as Jesus did, with endless love, no condemnation, and a willingness to give all, just for one soul.
Joh 8:11  “No one, sir,” she replied. Then Jesus said, “I don’t condemn you, either. Go home, and from now on do not sin any more.
I can’t  wait to hear some of your thoughts on what Holiness means to you! I believe it’s a journey, a destination that we can only arrive at, after the Holy God takes us from unholy flesh and sanctifies us in the way only He can!
God bless,

Posted by dividinghisword

I am the father of two, husband of one, and lover of Christ! I simply seek to spread the Word of God unadulterated, not filtered by denominational interpretation. I have a degree in Theology from Texas Bible College but more so I have His Word!


  1. Awesome post, and one that I’m sure a lot of Pentecostals aren’t in favor of!

    After 40+ years of being a Christian, one thing I’ve learned that Holiness is NOT is a dress code. Like you say, there are those who want the world to think they are better than, or above the average church goer so they dress in a way that sets them apart from everyone else. Long dresses and even longer hair are just two of the ways they do this.

    I have observed however, that people like this more often than not have a terrible attitude towards others. Meaning, if you don’t look like them you can’t possible be saved. My experience has also taught me that most of these people are associated with Oneness churches.

    I believe Holiness is the result of a sincere commitment to Jesus Christ and to dying daily to self. The less important we are to ourselves, the more important He becomes to us as He gains control of our lives. This control is manifested not in dress or length of hair, but in compassion, love, and mercy for the lost.

    After all, do we seriously believe that our long dresses, white shirts, and piled hair is what will draw the lost to the message of Christ’s love? If that is what we are hoping for, may God help us.



  2. I learned a lot from your site, thank you!



    1. Thank you Allian, I hope to continue producing content that is useful to you. God bless,



  3. Hmmm? – “What is Holiness?”

    Like you…
    “I’m still not sure what Holiness Is…”

    But Today…
    I try NOT to think of Holiness, as being Holy, Without fault, sin.
    As I was taught in “The Abusive Religious System.”

    “Without holiness NO man shall see the lord.” Heb 12:14.
    “Stop sinning.”

    I try NOT to think of me, Amos, being gooderer and gooderer…
    Getting betterer and betterer…
    More like Jesus, every day.

    Which caused me to focus on Amos.
    What is Amos doing? good or evil?

    And, NOT focus on Jesus. What is Jesus doing?

    Today… Using the Hebrew ko’-desh that you report on…
    I try to think of Holiness, as me Amos, being declared by God…
    A sacred place. A consecrated thing. A dedicated thing.

    How awesome is that. God lives in me. And…
    God NO longer lives in temples built with the hands of man.

    Wow!!! Me, Amos, being Holy Ground. Ex 3:5.

    1 – A sacred place, – For God to dwell in.
    Christ in You the Hope of Glory.
    WE, His Sheep, His Disciples, are “The Temple of God.”

    2 – A consecrated thing – Set apart to God. – By God…
    Thank you Jesus…

    3 – A dedicated thing – Dedicated to God.

    God the Father, God The Son, God The Holy Spirit…

    Calling me, Amos, unto Himself, and living in me.

    You write…
    “If we spend time reviewing Scripture,
    we see the most common word used
    across translations for holiness and holy,
    the Hebrew ko’-desh. From H6942;
    a sacred place or thing; rarely abstractly sanctity:
    consecrated (thing),
    dedicated (thing),
    hallowed (thing), holiness,

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  4. Holiness is a deep commitment to the Lord. It involves more than just wearing decent clothes and not watching Tv. Of course you need to do these also. If you can’t tell a good woman from a bad one then you may as well take your eyeballs out. I’m Pentecostal and i do not try to act like I’m any better than any one else. It’s holiness or hell! I struggle from day to day. I pray and the Lord helps me. Too many people like to down the “holy rollers” and that’s wrong. I say live and let live!



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