If you’ve ever been in a legalistic church, such as UPCI/Pentecostal churches, you’ve no doubt heard two things about wearing Jewelry and Makeup: Jezebel, and 1 Timothy 2:9 which says, “In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;”

That is to say, don’t make yourself ‘flashy’, wearing metal, gold, pearls, gaudy and rich decorations, etc. Ignore all those ostentatious hair dews, purses, and shoes though…those don’t apply. Right?

So in reality, the Bible never once condemns wearing makeup, or jewelry, and the two places in the New Testament that could be misconstrued, apply directly to women and wives.

In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;  But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works. – 1 Timothy 2:9-10, KJV

Likewise, ye wives…Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; – 1 Peter 3:1a, 3, KJV

Like the consumption of anything alcoholic, some have taken warnings about the potential dangers and turned it into a doctrine of abstinence. Now, if abstinence is your personal choice, and knowing your own weaknesses, the right choice, then God will bless it. Yet, to make your personal choice a doctrine of salvation, or a dogma of the body of Christ with no biblical standing is pharisaical.

And before you jump my bones about alcohol, read Deuteronomy 14 where the Jews purchased wine and strong drink by Moses’ command and drank it at the Temple as part of worshiping God in the Tithe of Feasts.

For instance, there are many places in the Bible where jewelry was considered to be a blessing, from God or man. In Genesis 24 we see a servant blessing Rebekah with earrings and bracelets and then worships God.

In Genesis 41, Pharoah arrays Joseph with jewelry’s, and God used Joseph to save His people.

David, the man after God’s own heart, in Psalms 25:12 compares earrings decorating the ear to an ear that receives wisdom.

Isaiah 61 exemplifies being robed in righteousness (to please God) the way a bride would adorn herself with fine jewels to look beautiful for the bridegroom.

The great story of the Prodigal son, which every church loves to use as an illustration of the restoral of a wayward soul, displays the father placing his ring on the hand of the returning son.

If the wearing of jewelry (or makeup) was a great sin before the eyes of God, why in the Old and New Testament was it such a normal thing, for God’s people and, expressed by God as part of human society and living?

The answer is that it is not a sin. And to the question of Why do some forbid it, it is because they either love controlling others, or they have misinterpreted Scripture. I know some people who truly and humbly believe it is just

What is a sin is your purpose or intent with what you do. Paul says in Romans 14:23b “for whatsoever is not of faith is sin.”

In my Pentecostal background, they always tried to reason that the only purpose for wearing jewelry, and makeup is to fulfill your own pride. Using the infamous scripture 1 John 2:16 as their jury.

For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. – 1 John 2:16, KJV

So, if the real sin is ‘looking good’, which is then tantamount to pride, then why do we take the time to make our hair perfect? Or to polish our shoes? Purchase expensive suits, purses, shoes, ties, cars, tires, rims, paint, decorations in the house, area rugs, mats, chandeliers, etc?

I know Pentecostal women who purchase all of their clothes at only designer stores, like Nordstroms, and Sacks 5th, etc. If they were living 1 Timothy 2, and 1 Peter 3 literally, they would not be wearing costly array. But legalists pick and choose Scriptures to fit their agenda, and drop the rest. At great peril.

Coming to that realization must then make us see that God illustrates pride to us in many ways, none of which is He condemning the things the carnal man abuses in his pride. God is condemning the pride and carnal abuse itself. He shows the good and bad of alcohol in the Word and then lets His children learn wisdom.

So Why do Legalists forbid these things?

The simple answer is it is a works based method of trying to cover up the man inside, with the pride of being aloof, holy, and self-righteous. They call it, Holiness.

Interesting that the people who attempt to be Holy by restricting the use of outward trappings put on their own garments of pride and find different ways to do the same thing.

I know men and women that will spend a lot of money to splash and flash with designer shoes, Armani suits, buy $1,000+ purses, and then stand aloof and say, ‘I’m Pentecostal, I won’t wear pride on my body, like rings and earrings, or get a lustful tan, or wear harlots makeup like Jezebel, etc’.

But the legalist forgot one thing.

For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God:  Not of works, lest any man should boast. – Ephesians 2:8-9, KJV

You can’t do anything and boast about it and incur God’s favor. Jesus said in Mark 7:7 that using the commandments of men as doctrine was vainful worship and he wouldn’t accept it. What makes us thing what trappings we put on our bodies, or remove will impact our salvation?

You can be prideful with your jewelry, and you can be prideful without your jewelry. Your heart condition is what God is after, not your skin.

God bless, and go forth knowing God is a discerner of the HEART!

 

 

 

 

 

Posted by dividinghisword

I am the father of two, husband of one, and lover of Christ! I simply seek to spread the Word of God unadulterated, not filtered by denominational interpretation. I have a degree in Theology from Texas Bible College but more so I have His Word!

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  1. Absolutely spot-on observations, my brother. Seriously. But as to the makeup on women, I once heard a preacher say it’s a sin for some women to come to church without it 😉

    Grace is amazing, isn’t it?

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    1. Now that’s funny! 🙂 Grace is an amazing thing that was hidden from me for so long, but I believe the Spirit leads us into all truths.

      God bless,

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  2. Curious… you’ve pointed out scripture that says jewelry is not an evil thing. I see that. But what about makeup? You lump it in with jewelry, but there is not one positive thing said about makeup in the bible. It is always used to be lustful like Jezebel. It is worn by harlots.. is there anything proving that makeup isn’t sinful?

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    1. Hi Tracey!

      I hope you are doing well and I appreciate you stopping by.

      The Bible actually makes several (15+) references to makeup/cosmetics and not all of them are in a negative light as we were taught to believe. Beauty was not the mark of a harlot, though a harlot wore makeup. Harlots also wore jewelry, and clothing, or little clothing. We cannot say that because a harlot did something, that anyone doing that thing is also a harlot or that it was condemned.

      Consider Esther 2:9, “Now the young lady pleased him and found favor with him. So he quickly provided her with her cosmetics and food, gave her seven choice maids from the king’s palace and transferred her and her maids to the best place in the harem.” (Note that a harem was normal in those palygomous times.)

      And Ezekiel 23:40 “”Furthermore, they have even sent for men who come from afar, to whom a messenger was sent; and lo, they came–for whom you bathed, painted your eyes and decorated yourselves with ornaments;”

      I do not believe cosmetics or makeup to be the mark of a harlot anymore than jewelry does. Her behavior, motivation, game, goal and lifestyle is that. The harlot is one who seeks to seduce another for sexual pleasure and more importantly, financial gain for that pleasure. There are millions of women who wear makeup and I would venture to say, their motivation is not to seduce another for sexual pleasure and financial gain.

      Jeremiah 17:10 “I the LORD search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings. ”

      Hebrews 4:12 “For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. ”

      1 Samuel 16:7 “But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart. “

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      1. Hey there! Thanks for your response!

        Esther 2:9 in the kjv which I use doesn’t even come close to referring to makeup. Many years and translations later, “cosmetics” was slipped in there. I use other versions too, but I believe King James to be the best for final say.

        Ezekiel 23:40 is referring to harlots, not any woman of God if read in context. There are also commentaries I found on biblestudytools.com that support this.

        Also, 1 samuel 16:7 does say that God looks at the heart, the intent of the heart, etc.. but the other half which talks about man looking on the outside is just as important. So you can’t really use this scripture to support the heart only. We are set apart.. a peculiar people.. not just in actions and intents, but also in our appearance.

        Also, makeup absolutely was created in Egypt. And Egypt is a reference to sin in the bible. So, harlots, immodest, Egypt-derived makeup is definitely frowned upon I believe.

        I have this one picture of me with makeup on. This particular day I was attempting to wear it without feeling convicted and I took a selfie. Upon looking at that selfie I wanted to throw up. The feeling on the inside came out for sure. Did I mean to look seductive? Absolutely not. But that spirit sat on me and that picture freaks me out. Are all my pictures with makeup like that? No. But the inner feeling is the same as that selfie.

        And when it comes to makeup, I think about what the bible says about us. We are fearfully and wonderfully made.. we are created in His image. It’s like God created this masterpiece and we think we can improve upon it. That would make me sad. I picture one of my kids coming home from school with a picture they created for me and I say “wait a minute I can improve it” and take markers and “fix” it. That would break their hearts and so I’m sure it breaks God’s.

        I really didn’t learn this from some book or preaching, but with an amazing encounter with the Lord. He spoke to me. Is that just for me? I’m not so sure since it is a part of my testimony and we are to share out testimony to help others come to the fulness of truth..

        Anyway, that’s my take on makeup..

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      2. Tracey,

        For me, I’m not willing to make the assumptive leap that if something like cosmetics was used in the same sentence as ‘harlot’ that it must then be bad. Alcohol is spoken of in negative light, but it was also recommended to be consumed in both the Old Testament and New Testament. We see examples (Genesis) of Noah getting drunk and bad things happened because of it. Do we take that example that all alcohol consumption is therefore, wicked? That would be an assumptive leap.

        The good thing however, is that you exerted the exact teaching Paul expressed, in Romans 14, specifically verse 22, that your convictions should be between you and God. If you feel for yourself that cosmetics is not for you, then it is a thing between you and God. I cannot take the stance that any woman who wears makeup has the ‘harlot’ Spirit. That isn’t Biblical in my experience but I don’t have the same personal opinion as you do, or conviction.

        As to your point, is your conviction just for you? It absolutely is, not that you cannot share it, but you cannot hold other people accountable to a personal conviction. That would be setting a doctrine in place and over the Word of God. If God intended for his people to never wear make up, he would have said so, just as he did for other things.

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      3. I get it. I really do.. I am still struggling is all.. I was looking at pictures of apostolic women tonight. Right before I read this actually.. and as I see tight pencil skirts, elaborate sometimes crazy hairstyles, and “hooker heels”, I wonder how we can even call that modest even without makeup and jewelry. I was talking with my friend about jewelry and makeup and I do see that it is the heart behind it. And the jewelry is a no brainer bc it’s right in scripture that when the Lord speaks of His bride, He decks her out.. I like your analogy of the alcohol. Makes total sense. I dont know what I’m afraid of. Like if I dont wear skirts I’m not modest. Well Kari Jobe (who I love) was talking about her modesty (I think she is VERY modest even in pants) and she said it would NOT be modest for her to wear skirts bc on stage people would see up her skirt! That makes total sense and just smashes the “holiness” and modesty of skirts only. Anyway, I know I’m going on and on. You know, when I first entered the UPC, I believed everything that was preached and I clung to the doctrine. Now I find myself in this in between place. My husband wants to go to this nondenominational church permanently. We’ve been twice and it is just so weird to NOT hear all the loudness of tongues and the screaming preacher who expects a “breakthrough” every service.. I just pray that God will open my mind and my heart to just follow my husband’s lead.. anyway.. keep doing what you are doing. There are unfortunately alot of us out here needing help.. thanks.. I find it simply awesome that you are responding and helping me.. can’t thank you enough..

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      4. It is a journey Tracey, my prayers are for your peace and comfort in Christ Jesus.

        I think of the words of Paul in Galatians regarding these topics and have realized, all the fruitless rules and regulations are simply nothing more than bondage. We are to be Free in Christ. Not free to sin, but Free in Him and if Christ didn’t call these things Sin, then I’m not willing to either.

        Blessings to you,

        Gal_2:4  And that because of false brethren unawares brought in, who came in privily to spy out our liberty which we have in Christ Jesus, that they might bring us into bondage:

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  3. Yes, Amen!!!! Excellent article. I love that verse: For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast. – Ephesians 2:8-9

    That is our aim! Salvation through faith in Christ, not our own worthless works! What arrogance to think that we bring anything to the table of a holy God but our sinful little selves. As if not wearing certain things could put us in league with his Holiness. Some groups have redefined “holiness” an reduced it to foolishness! Restricting makeup, jewelry, and certain clothing serve no purpose other than to control others (mostly women), and certainly do NOT make us holy. You’re so right, it’s legalism plain and simple.

    Thanks for doing this blog. A resource like this would have been such a blessing to me several years ago when I left the UPC. God Bless you in what you are doing Ralph. Hopefully we can strip all this foolishness away and get things back to the beautiful simplicity of the gospel of Jesus Christ!

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