Recently I was introduced (by a follower of this blog) to a list of Scriptures that does a wonderful job of displaying what Jesus’ disciples were meant to look like, how they were to behave and how they modeled Christianity to the flock – the saints of Christ.

It is no surprise that leadership is often perverted, in all areas of life, secular or spiritual, even by those with the best intentions. Leaders are comprised of humans, and we know power corrupts humans, and absolute power corrupts absolutely. Yet, the Scripture, if we would but study to show ourselves approved unto God, and follow it, rightly dividing it, we would be able to keep ourselves from those traps.

Do not let yourselves be called leaders or teachers; for One is your Leader (Teacher), the Christ.” – Matthew 23:10, AMP

The entire chapter (Matthew 23) is a what not to do lesson for Spiritual leaders, disciples, pastors, etc. This minor list is just the tip of the iceberg;

  • Sit in the seat of Moses (v2)
  • Burden Others to work for Them (v3-4)
  • Put on a Show to be exalted (v5)
  • Always at the Seat of Honor at the meals, services (v6)
  • Adore Public Attention (v7)
  • Demand to be called by Title, position of Authority, demand respect (v8-10)

In layman terms, spiritual leaders are not to require exaltation, to set themselves above and apart from the saints, to demand respect and special treatment, to sit in the seat of the Law and Judgement as Moses was asked to. Rather, they are to lead us to Christ, mostly meaning that the point the way to Calvary and then get out of the way. That isn’t to say we don’t need Spiritual Leadership, but the form it takes is ultimately important.

The Word of God says to try the spirits, whether they [leaders] are of God… in I John 4:1. False prophets are in the world and it is up to each New Testament believer to ward against them. Following Matthew 23 should allow us to do just that.

“For those who lead this people are causing them to go astray; And those who are led [astray] by them are swallowed up.” – Isaiah 9:6, AMP

Marks of Good Spiritual Leaders

The Apostle Paul set an example of a true Spiritual Leader, he knew the goal of the Lord’s Gospel was to have people follow Him and His disciples. If people were to follow him, he had a great responsibility to show the right type of leadership.

“For yourselves know how ye ought to follow us: for we behaved not ourselves disorderly among you; Neither did we eat any man’s bread for nought; but wrought with labour and travail night and day, that we might not be chargeable to any of you: Not because we have not power, but to make ourselves an ensample unto you to follow us.” – II Thessalonians 3:7-9, KJV

Everything that Paul did was to set an example to the rest of the believers, how we aught to behave ourselves towards God and other man. Most importantly, he preached the message that he was merely pointing people to Christ, not himself. Some examples of his messages are easy to find in Scripture if we look;

“For all who are allowing themselves to be led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.” – Romans 8:14, AMP

“But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law.” – Galatians 5:18, KJV

This coincides with the words of the Lord about spiritual guidance:

Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth:” – John 16:13a, KJV

Jesus said “Follow Me” 34 times between Matthew and John in the King James Bible, never did he say “Follow my pastors”. The importance was laid upon each of us to take up our cross and follow Jesus! Thus, the mark of good spiritual leadership is whether or not they are asking you to follow Christ, or follow them.

Take these examples of the spiritual leaders spawned by Christ;

“Paul, a servant of Jesus the Messiah, called to be an apostle and set apart for God’s gospel,” – Romans 1:1, KJV

“Paul and Timotheus, the servants of Jesus Christ,” – Phillipians 1:1, KJV

“Epaphras, who is one of you, a servant of Christ…” – Colossians 4:12, KJV

“Paul, a servant of God, and an apostle of Jesus Christ…” – Titus 1:1, KJV

“James, a servant of God and of the Lord Jesus Christ…” – James 1:1, KJV

“Simon Peter, a servant and an apostle of Jesus Christ” – II Peter 1:1, KJV

Sometimes it is easy to skim read the Word without picking up patterns, but the pattern here is obvious. The true Spiritual Leaders exuded servitude rather than demanding obedience to their own station of authority. In there you’ll not find ‘This is my station, obey me or leave’ type of leaders. Rather, you’ll find men of God doing rather than demanding.

Thus, we must all become servants of Christ, as God commanded us to follow Him, and in so doing, we lead our families, our friends, our coworkers and those in our social circle to Christ, not to a local leader. You will be a leader by following Christ

Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men. Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” – Matthew 5:13-16, KJV

Posted by dividinghisword

I am the father of two, husband of one, and lover of Christ! I simply seek to spread the Word of God unadulterated, not filtered by denominational interpretation. I have a degree in Theology from Texas Bible College but more so I have His Word!


  1. dividinghisword

    Much agreement with this statement…
    I would just add a little…

    “In layman terms, spiritual leaders (His Disciples,)
    are NOT to require exaltation,
    to set themselves above and apart from the saints,
    to demand respect and special treatment,
    to sit in the seat of the Law and Judgement
    as Moses was asked to.
    Rather, they (leaders, His Disciples,)
    are to lead us to Christ,
    mostly meaning that they point the way to Calvary

    and then get out of the way.”

    Ps 138:6 KJV
    Though the LORD be high, yet hath he respect unto the lowly:
    but the proud he knoweth afar off.

    Ps 40:4 KJV
    Blessed is that man that maketh the LORD his trust,

    and respecteth not the proud, nor such as turn aside to lies.

    When you believe the lie you start to die…

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  2. Hmmm?
    “Demand to be called by Title,

    “The entire chapter (Matthew 23) is a
    what not to do lesson for Spiritual leaders, disciples, pastors, etc.”

    what not to do
    “Demand to be called by “Title,” position of Authority, demand respect. 🙂

    Yes – spiritual leaders (His Disciples,) Are NOT to…
    “to set themselves “above and apart” from the saints,”

    Yes – Jesus, in Mat 23:8, says to, WE, His Sheep, His Ekklesia, His Disciples…
    “ALL ye are brethren.”

    But, “Titles,” set believers “above and apart” from one another.

    In “Today’s Abusive Religious System,” setting themselves, “above and apart,” is what happens when those who want to be known as “pastor/leader,” those wanting power, profit, prestige, those wanting to be an authority, take “Titles/Postions,” pastor/leader/reverend, that do NOT exist, in the Bible, for one of ”His Disciples.”

    “Titles” – Oy Vey!!! 😦

    “Titles,” will Seperate the brethren. (I am, You are NOT.)
    “Titles,” will Elevate one brethren over another. (Call me pastor.)
    “Titles,” will eventually be used to Control and Manipulate the brethren.
    (Because, I’m the pastor. That’s why.)

    “Titles,” Seperate.
    “Titles,” Elevate.
    “Titles,”” are used to Control and Manipulate.

    And, In the Bible? Did any of ”His Disciples?”
    Take the “Title/Postion?” Or call them self? pastor?
    Or shepherd? Or poimen? Or leader? Or reverend?


    What is popular is NOT always “Truth.”
    What is “Truth” is NOT always popular.

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  3. Is it not that insecure leaders demand respect and submission to them?

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    1. Hi @Late-Bloomer, that is correct, or very smart and controlling individuals, or even those that have been taught by previous leaders that this is just how things are done. I appreciate your feedback. God bless,

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